Older Men

Have you ever noticed, how attractive older men are? Well, in San Francisco, there seems to be a lot of them. Older, is where it's at. So forget those little 20 something skater guys, and tell them, to give you a call when they become a man.  Older men know how to treat a women. Maybe I'm being an ageist here, but from experience and talking with others, older men seem to know a thing or two.

A lot of older men in the city are very fashionable,  which adds to their overall appeal. When an older man strikes up a conversation with you, it can be intimidating. It makes one wonder, what do you have to offer. It's that youthful energy and the possibility that you're not jaded.  But what they don't know is that we are probably are jaded. Dating older men isn't just for the rich and fabulous either. Maybe you should try one out, but be careful, because they most likely have been around the block once or twice. Don't get manipulated, just because a nice attractive man is flirting with you or wanting to spend his time with you. Because, if you're an attractive girl in her 20's, trust me, there are many more where that one came from. And the best place to find them,  is at happy hours in the neighborhood of your style of man; Aka, the downtown area equals business man, or in the marina you can find your marina bro. 

Some words of wisdom, watch out for the party animal. You know the one that doesn't have anything going on in his life and all he does is party. If he isn't making his money from partying, then run the other direction. We need one with goals. But if you ask me, how to get that man to put a ring on it. I'm still working on that one. O, but we will save marriage for another day! Keep it classy San Francisco!!

Baggage

Baggage can be a heavy thing to carry around. So instead of carrying it around, sometimes we put it on carts. When we do that, we forget how much baggage is actually there. Anything and anyone could have an affect on the weight in your bag.  It could be something that is simple or complex. 

Sometimes it takes an accident or some twist of faith, to make one aware of the baggage they lug around. With this baggage, one goes on travels to find the love they have been searching for; yet, when it comes to love or romance baggage does nothing but slow you down.  It holds you back from reaching your final destination. 

To love or be love, one can not have to much luggage. A simple small carry on would be enough. How does one let go or get rid of baggage? I think you have to work through it, by testing yourself and knowing yourself, doing what you want and reaching your goals. Sometimes you cant  hide the bags anymore, and carts can only hold so much.  So at one point in time they will have to be transported some how.  But it's a lot easier when the bag checkers misplaces your bag. It gets lost in the shuffle of all the other lost and forgotten luggage and then all you can do is forget. 

But for the bags we end up taking home with us, we have to work through those. We have to put all the dirty clothes in the laundry and the toiletries in the bathroom. And remind ourselves how on the next trip, we aren't bring as many things back with us, because carrying that much luggage is tiring. You never know when something special will be waiting for you at the baggage claim.