Public Works...

 I <3 you!! I always have an amazing time. It must be a combination of the venue, music and, of course, the crowd. The venue itself has a very stimulating and intimate setting with it's wooden bar. Whenever you go, it always seems like a new place with all the rotation of art.  As for the music, As You Like It did a great job with the line up. Heidi preformed in the main room and was throwing down amazing beats. She appeared to be having a blast, along with the crowd. It is always a pleasure to see familiar smiling faces and being able to catch up with a few at these events.


While being a little off beat, tearing up the dance floor, my eyes were opened to a few things. First, I learned you can't be afraid of your light within. You need to let it shine, o let it shine. Secondly, I learned that being highly intoxicated while trying to converse with a potential mate, is not cute. You never know the effect one crazy evening can have on your reputation, pull it together drunken ones. Third, if you're interested in someone and are looking to get to know them more, don't be a bitch, period. Sassy, fierce, and assertive are not a bad thing, but being bitchy, because you're tired and stressed, not OK. Especially when you are a nice and easy going gal, it can be very deceptive. Plus, aren't you at these events to relax and let yourself go? If the answer is yes, then do so.  Finally, if a guy asked you to hang out and you think that is a great a idea, never say you're really busy, even if you are. Maybe next time, you should try saying, "I'd love to hang out, but the beginning of this week I'm a little swamped. How about we get together some time later in the week?' Now that is friendly and shows that you are interested. A text message isn't going to cut it Hun, because anyone can send one of those or a FB chat. 


Keep doing what you're doing, and don't let those quakes shake up your potential love life. Stay grounded, healthy and keep moving to the beat. 

A part of the weekend never dies...

The Soulwax track says it best, "A part of the weekend never dies," because I seem to always take something away from mine. Most of the time it seems to pertain about love, attraction or relationships. Sometimes, your weekend can bring you epiphanies or can help you stumble upon meanings for certain things that have been brought to you in  your life. This weekend was jammed packed with social events and good friends, from an As You Like it party to the Little Dragon concert. And when you  work as hard as I do, you get to unwind and play as hard as you work, but with the play there can also come many lessons.

Within the last few months, I have  meant some really interesting people. One in particular has made an impact in my life, for the better, of course. Throughout our interactions and faulty dating experience; I don't know if you call what we were doing dating, but I have learned a lot.  I learned you can't have what you want, if you aren't completely open to it. Also you shouldn't have a type of person you like, because you limited yourself. You'd  be surprised by the people you can fine attractive and desire, once you get to know them, or they put their spell on you. 

From a conservation I had, with this person about my weekend,  other things aroused that I've come to realize. One, if you really want a relationship, it's not just about giving and receiving love. It's about being able to need someone and except help from someone, while also being able to proved that security in return. For example, when your sick and throwing up after over indulging, don't turn that person away when they are trying to take care of you and see if you are ok. You have to be able to let others help you and show you affection, if you hope to one day have it as your own. Secondly, you want someone you can share your hopes, dreams, interests and morals with; yet,  you want someone who makes you feel comfortable, safe and you sexual desire so much that the thought of touching them drives you mad. Thirdly, savor your favor, because  it's worth more then you think. There is always a time and place for everything. 

Love your family, friends and all that brings you joy and happiness into your live. Be open and receptive to love and kindness. Stay tuned for the story about a  chemical illusion. xoxo