When I was little, my father always told me that I should look at people when I was speaking to them, preferably in their eyes. I never ask why nor did I get the reason at the time. Throughout my childhood into my adulthood, I learned that talking to someone and looking that person in their eyes was a difficult thing to do. Many people can't and don't do it. I also learned it was a way of showing respect and good way to read people.
In todays society, I've noticed it is something that many do not do. According to a British scientist only 30-60% of people actually look at each other when conversing. Maybe it's a way to protect oneself, because, in some cultures, the eyes are a gate way into ones soul. It can be disrespectful to have a conversation and make eye contact, for varies reasons.
When it comes to love, the secret is eye contact. It is one of the most powerful things a couple can do, besides all the body language cues. Looking into your prospects eyes, can help you get to the next step in courtship in many cases.
So don't be shy, look that hottie in the eye!! But take it slow, start looking at the face and then gaze into their eyes, while listening and talking. It can be quit intense so try for a few seconds and then slowly increase the time you peer into those irresistible irises.
It also has been proved that eye contact can lead to love at first sight. How you look at someone places a roll in developing phenylethylamine in the subject of desire. So, if you are looking for love, start giving the bedroom gaze a little more and longer. Go find the guy/gal of your dreams and have a sexy stare off, because you never know, you might spark the flame and become lovers!
In todays society, I've noticed it is something that many do not do. According to a British scientist only 30-60% of people actually look at each other when conversing. Maybe it's a way to protect oneself, because, in some cultures, the eyes are a gate way into ones soul. It can be disrespectful to have a conversation and make eye contact, for varies reasons.
When it comes to love, the secret is eye contact. It is one of the most powerful things a couple can do, besides all the body language cues. Looking into your prospects eyes, can help you get to the next step in courtship in many cases.
So don't be shy, look that hottie in the eye!! But take it slow, start looking at the face and then gaze into their eyes, while listening and talking. It can be quit intense so try for a few seconds and then slowly increase the time you peer into those irresistible irises.
It also has been proved that eye contact can lead to love at first sight. How you look at someone places a roll in developing phenylethylamine in the subject of desire. So, if you are looking for love, start giving the bedroom gaze a little more and longer. Go find the guy/gal of your dreams and have a sexy stare off, because you never know, you might spark the flame and become lovers!
