We all have flaws

Have you ever been afraid of not being prefect? And realized that those imperfection are what make you who you are? This feeling is very strange. Its even stranger when you demonstrate those imperfections and have to realize you have them. Not only realize it, but have to own up to them, especial to someone you like. Typically people try their hardest to make people like them, instead of just being themselves. It's so easy to be attracted to someone, because there are so many beautiful people out there and there are many things to help aid  ones beauty, such as make up, etc. It's harder to actually form a true connection that goes deeper then lust. Anyone can just jump in the sheets and get to it. Trying to keep someone around, because you know about rhythms and are good at them, isn't that hard. But to try to form a connection and relationship base on more then just mutual attraction can be very exposing, to from a true connection, one has to be true to themselves and be open to being vulnerable.

Sometimes when you've been hurt or in a certain mind space, being vulnerable feels like pulling teeth. Being open to yourself, to others, and to your emotions is very challenging. Sometimes it hurts more then we can bear. It is very scary to show affection. When you begin to question do they like me, one tends to look at one's own flaws. Then the fear creeps in, and you think your flaws may out weigh your wonderful light. In reality, you need to look inside and say, “Hey you, you're awesome. If someone doesn't like you because you aren't perfect, then they aren't the one for you.” Realize that if this person doesn't like you for your flaws and vulnerable, the universe is just giving you a sign. Maybe you are suppose to realize the issues you have around relationships, such as trust. Maybe someone else is meant to fill their spot. And, hey, guess what, you will have more fantastic and mind blowing experiences in your life.  Hey, maybe its not you're lesson to learn, but you're helping someone else towards their awakening. Remember, things happen for a reason.

We all have flaws. Some people are better at hiding them. Some are also better at not admitting that they have them. But every one's shit stinks some times, don't forget that. I love my flaws, because they are just room for more improvement towards the person I'm suppose to be. Life is about change and adaption. The ones who can adapt, be open and love again are the ones who survive. Darwin was a genius. Survive of the fittest. Don't waste your energy on people who cant love you for your silly little flaws, like not being able to spell or miss using your words. Those little flaws make you that much more beautiful. Love yourself.